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Why Kink Isn’t a Red Flag (But Sometimes It’s a Distraction From One)
Interest in kink doesn’t excuse poor boundaries or harmful behaviour. When I was first exploring kink, I remember being absolutely...
Matua Sol
Apr 134 min read
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Why I Still Do Pre-Scene Negotiation, Even With Long-Term Partners
Consent is an ongoing process, not a one-time agreement. I remember the first time someone I trusted deeply asked if we could “skip the...
Matua Sol
Apr 64 min read
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